Your Letters of Recommendations
Letters of Recommendations
Your letters of recommendation are another part of the admissions process. They allow ADCOMs to see
you as an applicant from a different viewpoint. Some may ask you to submit one, others up to three. I suggest you
submit at least two recommendations from different academic fields, even if the college only requires one. After
all they will read whatever you send, so there’s nothing to lose.
On the other hand, PLEASE REFRAIN from submitting more than two additional letters. Additional letters usually
don’t help much, and they might irritate the ADCOMs who may think you have a problem with following instructions.
Your letters should be distinct; each new letter must mention a thing or two that isn’t stated in other
letters.
It’s certainly tempting to send letters from everybody who loves you; the pastor at your church, the grocery
storekeeper, etc. But it’s really pointless unless these people have a strong connection to the college. What is a
strong connection?
Strong Connections
An alumni of the school is a strong connection. Your sister who has just graduated from there is a strong
connection. A college trustee is a strong connection. Someone who donated a million dollars to the development fund
is a strong connection. These letters can make a difference, but remember, only if you have the academic
qualifications.
Don’t send those letters just because they come from somebody important! Your recommender must be able to talk
about you. A letter from the president of the United States won’t help much if he can’t talk about you. And if a
letter starts with something like, “I don’t know much about Clara, but if she’s anything like her parents…” you can
be sure your letter will most likely be discarded.
It is Your Right To Waive Your Right
You probably see that phrase is most colleges’ recommendations forms. This is your right as stated under the
Buckley Amendment. Put simply, the US Congress has passed a Bill that gives you the right to see all documents
pertaining to you once you matriculate at a college.
“…sign here if you wish to waive
your right to see this document…”
On the form, the college asks you if you want to waive your rights. If you do, you will not be able to see the
documents even after you enter college. I strongly advise you to sign the waiver.
But? Here is Why...
The reason is this: By signing the waiver, you are effectively telling your recommenders that you are confident
of what they are going to say (since you won’t know if they wrote nasty things). Colleges see your confidence as a
good sign. They will trust that the letter is more truthful and candid than if you had not sign the waiver. If you
are concerned that your recommender might be negative in his or her recommendation, then that is a sign that you
probably should find another person.
After you’ve given your teachers to sign the form, always provide them with stamped and addressed envelopes so
as to make things easier for them. Approach them early and give them ample time to prepare your letters. Follow up
once in a while.
Lastly...
Update your teachers on your admissions status. They’ve helped you write nice things about you, so you should
keep them posted on your progress.
It’s just pure courtesy.
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